a. Physical violence or pressure, such as but not only:
Includes but is not limited to:
(i) Harmfull Leading
– A dancer who consistently leads or dances in a way that causes their partner pain or discomfort, especially after the partner has expressed their concerns, will be in violation of this rule. This includes insisting on specific moves, like ganchos or lifting poses, after the partner has said no.
“We all know tango is about connection, not a wrestling match! It’s wonderful to come together, share our best, and create those special moments that grow with each tanda. When we truly listen and understand each other on the dance floor, we’re not just dancing—we’re making the entire event more enjoyable and memorable for all of us. It’s in that mutual respect and flow that the magic of tango really happens!”
(ii) Unwanted Close Embrace
– Forcing a close embrace after the Partner has verbally objected or has clearly indicated their discomfort by pushing the Dancer away.
“Tango is all about connection and comfort, so let’s respect each other’s boundaries! If your partner expresses discomfort or prefers some space, it’s a chance to switch to a style that feels good for both. When we honor each other’s preferences, we create a more enjoyable experience for everyone. Let’s keep our embraces open to changes and our hearts open to everyone!”
(iii) Physical Aggression
b. Social violence or pressure, such as but not only:
Includes but is not limited to:
(i) Imposing Obligations
– A Participant or Dancer must not insist that their Partner owes them something or is obligated to them simply because they danced together for one or more tandas, or for any other reason.
“Tango is a gift we give to each other with no strings attached! Each tanda is its own unique experience, and the best dances happen when we’re free to enjoy the moment without expectations. Let’s keep the exchange light, respectful, and filled with mutual appreciation.”
(ii) Unsolicited Teaching
– A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
“Tango is about feeling, not teaching! The magic happens when we focus on connection, not correction. Let’s save the tips for when they’re truly wanted, and just enjoy the dance for what it is—a shared moment of joy and expression.”
A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
(iii) Persistent Dance Requests
– A Dancer repeatedly asking for a dance directly without cabaceo-mirada after the Partner has verbally objected, or continuously requesting a dance without cabaceo-mirada from various Participants.
“The invitation to dance is a beautiful ritual, truly part of the dance itself. When our eyes meet and the cabaceo happens, as we walk together to the floor, anticipation, mutual respect, and agreement are already shaping our dance—before we even embrace or take the first step.”
(iv) Demanding Explanations
– Approaching someone outside the dance floor and claiming that the approached Participant owes Him/Her an explanation or is obligated to Him/Her for any reason.
“When someone chooses to dance with us, they’re giving us their presence, and that’s something to appreciate. Let’s respect that moment and enjoy it for what it was. By valuing the time we’re given, without pushing for more, we create the possibility for that moment to happen again in the future.”
(v) Reputation Threats
– Threatening or implying that a Dancer would act in a way that could damage another Participant’s reputation.
“Let’s keep our dance community strong and supportive! Tango thrives on trust and respect, so it’s important to uplift one another rather than create negativity. By focusing on encouragement and positive interactions, we contribute to a joyful atmosphere where everyone can shine and grow together.”
c. Sexual violence or pressure, such as but not only:
Includes but is not limited to:
(i) Imposing Obligations
– A Participant or Dancer must not insist that their Partner owes them something or is obligated to them simply because they danced together for one or more tandas, or for any other reason.
“Tango is a gift we give to each other with no strings attached! Each tanda is its own unique experience, and the best dances happen when we’re free to enjoy the moment without expectations. Let’s keep the exchange light, respectful, and filled with mutual appreciation.”
(ii) Unsolicited Teaching
– A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
“Tango is about feeling, not teaching! The magic happens when we focus on connection, not correction. Let’s save the tips for when they’re truly wanted, and just enjoy the dance for what it is—a shared moment of joy and expression.”
A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
(iii) Persistent Dance Requests
– A Dancer repeatedly asking for a dance directly without cabaceo-mirada after the Partner has verbally objected, or continuously requesting a dance without cabaceo-mirada from various Participants.
“The invitation to dance is a beautiful ritual, truly part of the dance itself. When our eyes meet and the cabaceo happens, as we walk together to the floor, anticipation, mutual respect, and agreement are already shaping our dance—before we even embrace or take the first step.”
(iv) Demanding Explanations
– Approaching someone outside the dance floor and claiming that the approached Participant owes Him/Her an explanation or is obligated to Him/Her for any reason.
“When someone chooses to dance with us, they’re giving us their presence, and that’s something to appreciate. Let’s respect that moment and enjoy it for what it was. By valuing the time we’re given, without pushing for more, we create the possibility for that moment to happen again in the future.”
(v) Reputation Threats
– Threatening or implying that a Dancer would act in a way that could damage another Participant’s reputation.
“Let’s keep our dance community strong and supportive! Tango thrives on trust and respect, so it’s important to uplift one another rather than create negativity. By focusing on encouragement and positive interactions, we contribute to a joyful atmosphere where everyone can shine and grow together.”
