Desde el Alma
Desde el Alma 2026/27
– A dancer who consistently leads or dances in a way that causes their partner pain or discomfort, especially after the partner has expressed their concerns, will be in violation of this rule. This includes insisting on specific moves, like ganchos or lifting poses, after the partner has said no.
“We all know tango is about connection, not a wrestling match! It’s wonderful to come together, share our best, and create those special moments that grow with each tanda. When we truly listen and understand each other on the dance floor, we’re not just dancing—we’re making the entire event more enjoyable and memorable for all of us. It’s in that mutual respect and flow that the magic of tango really happens!”
– Forcing a close embrace after the Partner has verbally objected or has clearly indicated their discomfort by pushing the Dancer away.
“Tango is all about connection and comfort, so let’s respect each other’s boundaries! If your partner expresses discomfort or prefers some space, it’s a chance to switch to a style that feels good for both. When we honor each other’s preferences, we create a more enjoyable experience for everyone. Let’s keep our embraces open to changes and our hearts open to everyone!”
– Pushing, hitting, striking, kicking, elbowing, shaking or otherwise violently approaching any other person on the dancing floor or outside it
“Tango is built on mutual respect, trust, and emotional safety. Physical aggression, intimidation, or violent behavior of any kind — whether during the Event or outside of it — has no place in our community. Even in moments of disagreement or tension, all Participants are expected to communicate respectfully and maintain self-control. By treating each other with care and dignity, we help create a safe and welcoming environment for everyone.”
– Repeated forcing of some figure/s (for example ganchos, lifting poses,...) after verbal objection from partner.
“Tango should always feel safe, comfortable, and enjoyable for both partners. Figures involving greater physical intensity or risk — such as ganchos, lifts, dips, or similar movements — must always be mutually accepted. If a partner expresses discomfort or refuses a movement, that decision must be fully respected. Adapting your dance to your partner’s comfort and boundaries is a sign of skill, respect, and good social dancing etiquette.”
– A Participant or Dancer must not insist that their Partner owes them something or is obligated to them simply because they danced together for one or more tandas, or for any other reason.
“Tango is a gift we give to each other with no strings attached! Each tanda is its own unique experience, and the best dances happen when we’re free to enjoy the moment without expectations. Let’s keep the exchange light, respectful, and filled with mutual appreciation.”
– A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
“Tango is about feeling, not teaching! The magic happens when we focus on connection, not correction. Let’s save the tips for when they’re truly wanted, and just enjoy the dance for what it is—a shared moment of joy and expression.”
A Dancer instructing their Partner is not allowed on the dance floor at any time, and is only allowed outside the dance floor with the partner’s explicit request.
– A Dancer repeatedly asking for a dance directly without cabaceo-mirada after the Partner has verbally objected, or continuously requesting a dance without cabaceo-mirada from various Participants.
“The invitation to dance is a beautiful ritual, truly part of the dance itself. When our eyes meet and the cabaceo happens, as we walk together to the floor, anticipation, mutual respect, and agreement are already shaping our dance—before we even embrace or take the first step.”
– Approaching someone outside the dance floor and claiming that the approached Participant owes Him/Her an explanation or is obligated to Him/Her for any reason.
“When someone chooses to dance with us, they’re giving us their presence, and that’s something to appreciate. Let’s respect that moment and enjoy it for what it was. By valuing the time we’re given, without pushing for more, we create the possibility for that moment to happen again in the future.”
– Threatening or implying that a Dancer would act in a way that could damage another Participant’s reputation.
“Let’s keep our dance community strong and supportive! Tango thrives on trust and respect, so it’s important to uplift one another rather than create negativity. By focusing on encouragement and positive interactions, we contribute to a joyful atmosphere where everyone can shine and grow together.”
– Verbally attacking, insulting, humiliating, intimidating, or otherwise harassing another Participant — whether privately or publicly — including situations arising from a refused dance invitation, interrupted tanda, rejection, or any other unwanted social interaction.
“Respect for personal choice is a fundamental part of social dancing culture. Every Participant has the right to refuse a dance, end a dance, or choose with whom they wish to dance, without pressure, retaliation, or justification. Approaching another Participant with insults, verbal attacks, intimidation, humiliation, or inappropriate confrontational behavior — whether privately or in front of others — after a refusal or an unwanted outcome is unacceptable and may result in removal from the Event.”
– Touching any parts of another participant’s body outside the agreed dance embrace without explicit consent.
“Tango is a shared space built on trust and comfort. Every form of physical contact must be mutual and clearly welcomed by both partners. Respecting boundaries ensures that everyone can enjoy dancing with safety and ease.”
– Kissing during a dance or at the event without explicit consent from the other participant.
“Even in emotionally expressive environments like tango, physical intimacy is never assumed. Any form of kissing must always be clearly and freely agreed upon by both people. Respect creates safety, and safety allows connection to flourish.”
– Continuing to ask intimate, personal, or sexual questions after a clear refusal or boundary has been set.
“This includes ignoring a ‘no’ and continuing with questions or attempts to justify or challenge someone’s decision regarding intimacy or privacy. A respectful conversation always honors the other person’s boundaries without pressure or repetition.”
– Offering privileges, advantages, or benefits in exchange for sexual or intimate behavior.
“Everyone should feel free from pressure or expectation in social and dance environments. Any suggestion of exchanging favors for intimacy undermines trust and safety within the community. Mutual respect is the foundation of all interactions.”
– Inappropriate Criticism of Dancing Skills: Criticizing, mocking, or humiliating another Participant’s dancing abilities during or immediately after a dance — whether verbally or through non-verbal behavior — is prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, negative comments, sarcastic remarks, dismissive sounds or gestures, hostile facial expressions, intentionally breaking the embrace in a disrespectful manner, or other conduct clearly expressing contempt, frustration, or ridicule toward a dance partner’s skill level or performance.
“Social dancing is built on respect, patience, and mutual enjoyment. Dancers of all levels deserve to feel comfortable and safe on the dance floor. Differences in experience, style, or ability should be approached with kindness and understanding, never with humiliation or passive-aggressive behavior.”
– Public Insulting or Humiliation: Publicly insulting, mocking, humiliating, shaming, or ridiculing another Participant in any form is prohibited. This includes verbal statements, offensive jokes, shouting, inappropriate comments, hostile confrontations, or non-verbal behavior intended to embarrass, degrade, or damage another person’s dignity, reputation, or emotional well-being in front of others.
“A respectful and welcoming atmosphere is essential for a healthy social dancing community. Participants are expected to communicate with courtesy and treat others with dignity at all times, even in situations of disagreement, frustration, or personal conflict.”
– Attempting to control, isolate, pressure, or restrict another Participant’s social interactions, movement, or dancing choices is prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, preventing someone from accessing parts of the Event, discouraging or forbidding them from dancing with specific dancers, criticizing Participants for their dance choices, making negative, possessive, or pressuring comments regarding the number of tandas danced with another person, or monopolizing or deliberately occupying a Participant’s time during cortinas or breaks in a way that prevents their free social interaction, including forcing or pressuring prolonged conversation.
“Social dancing is based on personal freedom, mutual respect, and voluntary connection. Every Participant has the right to choose freely with whom, when, and how often they dance and socialize, without pressure, judgment, jealousy, or controlling behavior from others.”
– Aggressive or Possessive Jealous Behavior: This includes, but is not limited to, confrontations arising from dancing with other partners, controlling or monitoring another Participant’s social interactions, creating scenes, emotional pressure, intimidation, hostile accusations, repeated unwanted questioning, or behavior intended to cause guilt, discomfort, fear, or emotional distress in connection with another person’s dancing or social choices.
“Social dancing is founded on freedom of choice, mutual respect, and a safe social atmosphere. Participants are free to dance, socialize, and spend time with whomever they choose. Jealousy, possessiveness, or emotionally aggressive behavior undermines the welcoming and inclusive spirit of the Event and will not be tolerated.”
– Any form of stalking, persistent unwanted attention, or repeated unwanted contact toward another Participant is prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, interrupting another person’s dance in order to approach, speak to, or remove them from a dance, repeatedly approaching a person after refusal or disinterest, persistently requesting dances or personal attention, repeatedly asking for phone numbers, social media contacts, accommodation details, place of stay, or other personal information, as well as repeated messaging or attempts to establish contact through social media or other communication channels against the person’s wishes.
“A respectful social environment requires acceptance of personal boundaries and the ability to respect ‘no’ without pressure, persistence, or pursuit. Every Participant has the right to privacy, personal space, and freedom from stalking or unwanted attention.”